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I bet recently divorced people after 40 or older don’t have a lot of experience in asking someone out on a date. If you finally managed to ask someone out to spend an evening with you, don’t bother this person with your stories from a relationship you used to have.
And even if your ex was terrible, don’t speak about her/him; there’s no need in remembering it all over again.
When my marriage ended I was, or so I thought, eager to start dating, and I set up an online dating profile almost immediately.
After matching with someone, we texted for a full week before I was able to go out on an actual date.
According to psychologists, recovering from long-term relationships lasts five or six months.
But when you’re forty and older, this process may last up to several years.
Ladies already have their own views formed by such aspects, as a previous partner, kids, relationships, etc.
Such method has one big advantage – you don’t have to instantly start talking to someone you like in person.
This will help avoid awkwardness in communication to some extent.
Besides, have you seen someone talking about their previous relationships on a date, especially the first one?
And there’s more - as the years pass, human brain often alters memories about the past.